Christopher Chandler, MS, AMFT
Therapist
AMFT, #137791 | Supervised by Andrew Last, LMFT
Contact
(626) 427-7552
Porn & Sexual Addiction Therapy for Couples and Individuals in California
Helping men, couples, and families untangle the cycles of addiction, betrayal, and disconnection so they can rebuild trust and find genuine healing.
I help men and couples navigate porn and sexual addiction, betrayal, and relationship repair with direct, structured support that gets beneath the surface conflict. Together, we identify the patterns driving disconnection and take steady steps toward real change and restored connection.
Who I Work With
Couples dealing with porn use, sexual addiction, or betrayal
Men struggling with compulsive or addictive sexual behaviors
Individuals navigating anxiety, depression, or grief
Teens and families working through conflict and communication
Adults facing life transitions or trauma
Areas I Help With
Porn and sexual addiction
Betrayal and infidelity
Couples and marriage conflict
Depression, anxiety, and grief
Trauma
Addiction and codependency
Family conflict and parenting
Neurodivergent and PDA parent support
My Approach to Therapy
I most often draw on Restoration Therapy (Level II) and parts work similar to Internal Family Systems (IFS), alongside somatic, trauma-focused, and Gottman Method approaches. My work with addiction is rooted in the intersection of trauma, attachment, and the relational patterns that keep unhealthy cycles going. I also bring decades of personal recovery experience, which informs a direct, honest, and deeply practical style of care.
What It's Like to Work Together
Sessions are supportive, honest, experiential, and practical. We name what's happening, understand the cycle, and take real steps forward. I am warm and compassionate, and also direct: we don't just talk about the problem, we work on it. Clients often describe feeling genuinely understood while also gaining clear tools they can use in their daily lives and relationships.
About Me
Chris Chandler is an Associate Marriage and Family Therapist (MS, AMFT) practicing at Oasis Counseling Group in San Diego, CA. He earned his M.S. in Marriage and Family Therapy from Fuller Theological Seminary, and holds additional degrees in Public Policy from UCLA and Duke University. Chris holds a Level II certification in Restoration Therapy and brings personal long-term addiction recovery experience to his clinical work. He is also a trained backpacking instructor and outdoor educator.
Specialties
Porn and sexual addiction for men and couples
Couples and pre-marital therapy
Anxiety and panic
Therapy for teens and parent support
Neurodivergent and PDA parent support
Session Details
Sessions Offered
Virtually
Session Length
50 minutes
Licensed in
Virtually throughout California
Insurance / Fees
Private pay, Out of network, Superbill available
Frequently Asked Questions
Do you offer a free consultation?
Yes. Chris offers a free 10-15 minute phone consultation so you can share what's feeling stuck and leave with a clearer direction for moving forward.
Do you work with both individuals and couples?
Yes. Chris works with individuals, couples, and families. He has particular expertise in helping couples navigate porn use, sexual addiction, and betrayal, as well as working with individuals on anxiety, grief, depression, and trauma.
Do you speak Spanish?
Chris has proficiency in Spanish and welcomes Spanish-speaking clients who may be having difficulty finding counseling elsewhere.
Do you have additional certifications or training?
Yes. Chris holds a Level II certification in Restoration Therapy, is a certified Prepare/Enrich Facilitator, and in summer 2026 is beginning specialized training through IITAP as an ASAT Candidate working toward formal certification in sexual addiction treatment. He also brings years of personal sobriety and recovery, and decades of experience attending and leading men's sexual addiction recovery groups through Celebrate Recovery and other programs.